Catering for memorials, funerals and celebrations of life across San Diego, thoughtfully prepared, delivered and set up buffet style at your home or venue, or in our private banquet room for up to 120 guests. We handle the food so your family can be together.
When you are saying goodbye to someone you love, the last thing you should worry about is feeding everyone who gathers. Elijah's Restaurant, Delicatessen and Catering has supported San Diego families through loss for more than 25 years. We cater memorial luncheons, funeral receptions and celebrations of life with warmth and quiet professionalism — generous deli spreads, hot buffets, appetizers, desserts and beverage service. We will deliver and set up at your home, church, synagogue or graveside reception, or host your gathering in our private banquet room. Call or text us at (858) 353-5528 and we will take care of the food.
Every family grieves differently. Whether you want a quiet spread at home or a hosted reception, we will meet you where you are.
We bring the memorial reception to you — your home, a church or synagogue hall, a park, or a funeral venue anywhere in San Diego County. Delivered and set up, buffet style, ready to serve. We don't provide servers, bartenders, linens or rentals.
Let us host your family in our private banquet room, seating up to 120 guests. A calm, comfortable space for a memorial luncheon or celebration of life — with no room charge when you cater with us. We set up the buffet so it is ready to serve.
Looking for a simple spread delivered to the family's home during the mourning week? See our dedicated shiva platters →
Mix and match any of the following to suit your gathering. Because every memorial is different, we quote each one personally — call or text (858) 353-5528 for pricing and guidance.






We quote each memorial personally based on guest count and menu. 10-guest catering minimum. Orders need 24 hours' notice; sooner by phone or text only.
We have done this for San Diego families for over 25 years. Our job is to make this part easy.

Call or text our catering line at (858) 353-5528 or order online. Share the date, guest count, location and any traditions. We will gently guide you to the right menu — no pressure.

Everything is made fresh in our kitchen the day of your gathering. Cold platters travel ready to serve; hot buffets arrive in chafing dishes to stay warm. We confirm every detail with you in advance so there are no surprises.

We deliver to your home, venue or our banquet room and set everything up, buffet style, ready to serve. Plates, napkins and utensils are included. We don't provide servers, bartenders, linens or rentals, and cleanup is not included.
San Diego families have turned to Elijah's for memorials, shivas and celebrations of life since 2001. We understand the rhythm of these days and the quiet dignity they call for.
From a banquet-room luncheon to a tray quietly delivered to the family's home, we scale to whatever brings your family the most comfort. Every order is delivered and set up, buffet style, ready to serve.
We prepare a kosher-style deli menu and are familiar with Jewish mourning customs. We are not a kosher kitchen and can't guarantee meat and dairy separation. Vegetarian choices are on every menu.
Arrangements often come together in a day or two. Orders need 24 hours' notice; sooner by phone or text only at (858) 353-5528. Call us and we will do everything we can to meet your timeline, with the same quality and respect we bring to every order.
If hosting at home feels like too much, let us hold your family in our private banquet room. It seats up to 120 guests in a calm, comfortable setting — ideal for a memorial luncheon or celebration of life, with parking and a central Clairemont Mesa location.
We deliver and set up memorial catering at homes, churches, synagogues, funeral halls and parks across San Diego County. Not sure if we reach your location? Call or text (858) 353-5528.
"Elijah's catered my father's celebration of life and made an impossible week so much easier. The food was beautiful, the team was kind and unobtrusive, and everything was set up before guests arrived. I can't thank them enough."
"We held the memorial luncheon in their banquet room. They handled the setup, the buffet and the cleanup, so our family could just be together. Warm, professional and genuinely caring from start to finish."
"On just two days' notice they delivered a full deli spread and coffee service to our home after the funeral. Everything arrived ready to serve. Elijah's has been there for our family more than once over the years."
Our shiva platters are simple trays delivered to the family's home during the mourning week. Memorial and celebration of life catering covers the reception itself: deli spreads, hot buffets, appetizers, desserts and beverages, delivered and set up buffet style at your location or in our banquet room for up to 120 guests. Both are drop-off catering; we don't provide servers, bartenders, linens or rentals. Many families use both. See our shiva platters page for drop-off trays, or call (858) 353-5528 and we'll help you decide.
Yes. Our private banquet room seats up to 120 guests and is well suited to memorial luncheons, celebrations of life and post-service receptions. There is no room charge when you cater with us. We set up the buffet so it is ready to serve; we don't provide servers, bartenders, linens or rentals. Call (858) 353-5528 to check availability for your date.
We do. We deliver and set up buffet-style catering at private homes, churches, synagogues, funeral halls, parks and any venue across San Diego County. Just give us the address and guest count. Setup, plates, napkins and utensils are included. Delivery is priced by drive time ($19.95 to $74.95), and online orders carry a 3% service fee. We don't provide servers, bartenders, linens or rentals.
Pricing depends on guest count and menu, so we quote each memorial individually rather than list set prices. Our catering minimum is 10 guests. The simplest way to get an accurate quote is to call or text (858) 353-5528 or request a free quote online — we'll build a spread that fits your family and your budget.
We understand that arrangements often come together in just a day or two. Standard orders need 24 hours' notice; sooner by phone or text only at (858) 353-5528. Call or text us and we'll do everything we can to accommodate your timeline.
We prepare a kosher-style deli menu and are very familiar with Jewish mourning customs, including shiva. We are not a kosher kitchen and can't guarantee meat and dairy separation. Vegetarian choices are on every menu. We can't make substitutions or allergy accommodations: onion and garlic are in most dishes and everything is prepared in shared pans.
Memorial catering includes the food, setup, plates, napkins and serving utensils. Hot buffets arrive in chafing dishes, and coffee and beverage service can be added. In our banquet room, tables and seating are included. Delivery is priced by drive time ($19.95 to $74.95), and online orders carry a 3% service fee. We don't provide servers, bartenders, linens or rentals, and cleanup is not included.
As soon as your date is set. Standard orders need 24 hours' notice; sooner by phone or text only at (858) 353-5528. For receptions and banquet room dates we recommend reaching out as early as possible so we can hold your date. Call or text and we'll tell you honestly what's possible for your timeline.
Call or text us — it's the gentlest way to start, especially on short notice. Or request a quote online and we'll respond within the hour during business hours.